The solution is, sweetie, if you can’t handle the stress of having kids, then don’t have any fucking kids. Demanding that men pay you for your time is not a good idea. All you’re doing is giving men more reasons to withhold our genetic material and never, ever marry you!
Your Professor didn’t want the responsibility and the stress of having children, and look how it turned out: a stress-free existence with paid up real estate, a wine cellar, travel, and amazing food porn posted on social media several times a week! Why, looky here! Here’s something they’re not serving at Chuck E. Cheese:

Did you and the kids have dinner like this recently? Or just another bucket of KFC or a Happy Meal?
No one’s putting a gun to your head, darling. You don’t have to have kids. And most guys agree to have kids only at the end of the barrels of your guns, ladies! Face it, a significant number of us don’t want the stress and lifestyle downgrade that having kids require. And now you want us to compensate you? FUCK YOU!